We never really clicked as soon as we met. Rather, we ignored each other and barely acknowledged each other’s presence every time we see each other in the corridor. Yes, we smile and nod, but we never talk to each other when we’re alone. We always need the presence of our other friends for us to join in the conversation.
“I think this is the first time I saw you being this quiet.” This is what our common friend told me the night she introduces us to each other. She’s not used to me being quiet because she knows me as the one always initiating the conversation and being the social butterfly that I am, I should be the one introducing myself to you and quickly pulling you to our friend group. But I guess I just wasn’t in the mood to talk? To be honest, I’m not really the extrovert that she thought I am. I’m not really good around new people and I get tongue-tied when meeting new people. So yeah, nice meeting you but I’m not talking to you because I’m scared as hell and I don’t know how to talk to you.
But then we see each other every day, and a smile and nod are not enough anymore. I got comfortable seeing you around and you blend in with our group just as easily. We finally find things to talk about and got to do things together, without our other friends. At that time, I only see as a reliable friend. Someone I can call to watch anime with. Someone to gush over photography, and someone to talk about writing and whatnot.
Though I left the company anymore, our friendship did not end there. I thought that we will lose connection as soon as I left the company, but that was not the case. We may not be talking to each other every day, but we retain that steady communication and was able to see each other despite our different schedules. I’m grateful for the steady friendship that we had. But over time, I see you in a different light already and I’m afraid. I wanted to tell you that I like you not only as a friend but as someone whom I can see myself in a relationship with. But I’m scared. I’m grateful for our friendship and I don’t want to ruin it. And I don’t know what to do because I’m afraid of losing you.